Chaos 2 Posted November 3, 2010 I spent about 30 minutes this morning at a Starbucks chatting with a 30ish year old (gorgeous) woman. When she left she gave me her number and a kiss on the cheek.She just checked in to my group fitness class with her husband. Gonna be an awkward morning. That right there sucks balls. I don't know if I would talk to her if she had a husband and that happened. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tex1an2 680 Posted November 3, 2010 Yea these are the sort of scenarios that end with a double homicide, avoid at all costs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ika 320 Posted November 3, 2010 I guess what I meant was... I won't instigate it or facilitate it in any way. I am most concerned about my professional appearance if something happens. However, what I have been arguing with myself about is that I met her well before work this morning so I technically didn't meet her via work. We will see how tonight goes in our meeting, I'll be seeing her in 3 hours. If you're a "fitness consultant" your job has already been stereotypically labeled for these kinds of things Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Fohacidal Posted November 3, 2010 I do know she is married, but I mean if the woman is gonna get naked she is gonna get naked. With me or someone else, and if the guy is an asshole, I'd rather it be me. Now, if she wasn't being very forward or cuts the crap, or the husband is a great guy, I'd tell her was flattered but that's it.My conscience wil not ache if she chooses path one. I won't promote infidelity, but I am willing to reap the benefits.If she proves to be unfaithful to her husband by actually trying to sleep with you its your responsibility as an adult to talk to her and/or her husband about it. Dont promote her behavior, dont become a part of it and most certainly dont ignore it. You have a unique chance to either fix a possibly broken relationship or help end it diplomatically before something bad happens. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BlkDrgn 0 Posted November 3, 2010 If she proves to be unfaithful to her husband by actually trying to sleep with you its your responsibility as an adult to talk to her and/or her husband about it. Dont promote her behavior, dont become a part of it and most certainly dont ignore it. You have a unique chance to either fix a possibly broken relationship or help end it diplomatically before something bad happens.it was already said in different words that if she is going to stray, theres nothing anyone can do about it.. morally it may be wrong to persue, but technically its up to her to not initiate, so if anything happens with the relationship she is in, its not our guys fault Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fatb0y 1337 Posted November 3, 2010 If she proves to be unfaithful to her husband by actually trying to sleep with you its your responsibility as an adult to talk to her and/or her husband about it. Dont promote her behavior, dont become a part of it and most certainly dont ignore it. You have a unique chance to either fix a possibly broken relationship or help end it diplomatically before something bad happens.Don't be a prude. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Oreo 2073 Posted November 3, 2010 Jesus Christ Konah, at this rate theres no way your not getting gingervitis.OT: Do it. Oh and pics please c:. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Super Novacaine 2228 Posted November 3, 2010 You have a unique chance to either fix a possibly broken relationship or help end it diplomatically before something bad happens.A. Fix a relationshipB. Help end a relationship diplomaticallyC. Get your dick wetNo contest for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Konah 0 Posted November 4, 2010 So I had my meeting with her tonight at 6. She was again very flirty, and I ended up telling her that I couldn't allow myself to train her but would be more than willing to set her up with another trainer (yay for professionalism). She then told me she really didn't want training, but figured this would be the easiest way to chat with me without raising suspicion - so I helped her cancel it and all that.So then we just chatted for the rest of the hour. She boosted my ego pretty well, saying I got her heart racing this morning at the coffee shop and yadda yadda yadda. Long story short, she asked if I'd like to go grab dinner tomorrow... So we are, then going ballroom dancing afterwards hahah! I could not say no.I asked why she wanted to do this since she had a husband, and her reasoning was this: They were pushed to get married outa highschool by family, and she says she lost feelings for him a few years ago but didn't see an "out". He has since been caught cheating 4 times (so my conscience is clean), and she wants to start moving on.@Novacaine: I chose C tonight.@Oreo: I have most definitely come down with gingervitis.@Foh: I would typically agree with you, but how about this arguement... Their marriage is evidently dead and he has already committed adultery, and she is looking to start over - the least I could do is help facilitate her wishes, right? No? Oh well.@Ika: Sadly, you are right. But! I did not meet this woman via my job, and have since refused to train her, so I have done my professional duty. @Kelso: I agree with you, that's why I decided to go out with her tomorrow. I'll try to get a picture of us dancing, even if that's corny, but no promises. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Empire 30 Posted November 4, 2010 Your choice is made, your path is set.And Karma will be watching the entire time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ika 320 Posted November 4, 2010 it was already said in different words that if she is going to stray, theres nothing anyone can do about it.. morally it may be wrong to persue, but technically its up to her to not initiate, so if anything happens with the relationship she is in, its not our guys fault so if someone gives you cocaine for free and you're arrested for having it, do you say "it wasn't my fault i got it for free"? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kelso 4 Posted November 4, 2010 so if someone gives you cocaine for free and you're arrested for having it, do you say "it wasn't my fault i got it for free"?Most likely yes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Konah 0 Posted November 4, 2010 Your choice is made, your path is set.And Karma will be watching the entire time.I believe in Karma, yet I also believe things (in that aspect) will continue to go in my favor given the situation she disclosed to me. Now, if that turns out to be a lie - which is very plausible - well, then I'll have to repent. After.so if someone gives you cocaine for free and you're arrested for having it, do you say "it wasn't my fault i got it for free"?Different situation. I wouldn't be arrested for going out tomorrow with her, and she won't get me high. She'll get me naked. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Failsniper 2 Posted November 4, 2010 Konah, think of us when you go pooper deep Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ika 320 Posted November 4, 2010 Different situation. I wouldn't be arrested for going out tomorrow with her, and she won't get me high. She'll get me naked. My point was that the argument "its not the guy's fault" doesn't hold, anywhere. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BlkDrgn 0 Posted November 4, 2010 My point was that the argument "its not the guy's fault" doesn't hold, anywhere.you cant compare the 2 situations tho.. a woman looking to do something on the side of a relationship is nowhere close to drug possesion.. its like eating an apple and complaining it doesnt take like an orange..konah is not destroying a marriage, he isnt breaking up a home.. if things go south with the husband, konah didnt do it, the woman did Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest J_MaFia Posted November 4, 2010 If u learned anything from the Video i Posted u should know wat to do. LAY THE MOTHA FUCKA OUT and give her the option of Choosing Who to Go home with, You the Badass mo Fucka That laid him out or the bitch on The Ground. Desicions Descicions.Heres the video if u didint see it :Dhttp://www.syndicate-gamers.net/showthread.php/36446-MUST-SEE-VIDEO-FOR-VARGINS-LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Konah 0 Posted November 4, 2010 If u learned anything from the Video i Posted u should know wat to do. LAY THE MOTHA FUCKA OUT and give her the option of Choosing Who to Go home with, You the Badass mo Fucka That laid him out or the bitch on The Ground. Desicions Descicions.Heres the video if u didint see it :Dhttp://www.syndicate-gamers.net/showthread.php/36446-MUST-SEE-VIDEO-FOR-VARGINS-LOLBut... I don't have to fight anyone, she already asked me out somewhere...? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Failsniper 2 Posted November 4, 2010 I wonder if she has a child? Are you going to stick your penis into that child too? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ivanns 1088 Posted November 4, 2010 Ahaha thats some nice story. Hope it goes your way. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Konah 0 Posted November 4, 2010 I wonder if she has a child? Are you going to stick your penis into that child too?No child. I asked, because I kinda wanted her to be a milf. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest J_MaFia Posted November 4, 2010 But... I don't have to fight anyone, she already asked me out somewhere...?Show her the Reason to Divorse him idk =D Lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ika 320 Posted November 4, 2010 No child. I asked, because I kinda wanted her to be a milf. so she got married "out of high school", is in her 30s, and doesn't have a kid? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kelso 4 Posted November 4, 2010 so she got married "out of high school", is in her 30s, and doesn't have a kid?Yeah she didn't totally fuck up.What's your point? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ika 320 Posted November 4, 2010 Yeah she didn't totally fuck up.What's your point? my point is, she's been married for like 10+ years... what the fuck has she been doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites